Apparently the home economics classes have stopped being taught in schools. Sunday afternoon dinners, with more people than space at the table, are no longer a family tradition. And long gone are the after-dinner lessons from Grandma regarding how to properlly hand wash and dry dinnerware, flatware, stemware and service ware. (Not to mention pots, pans and other hard to clean, grimy cook ware.)
Not to fear–I am here to explain this process to you. Now I know most of you have had to hand wash a dish or two but I am sure that most of you just throw most of your stuff into the dishwasher and forget about it. I am here to tell you that at some point you will have some finer items that will require you to take care of them in a more personal and loving way. When that day comes I want you to be ready–with your dish soap and dish cloth in hand.

So here goes…
You will need:
- A clean sink
- Hot water for washing the dishes
- Dish washing soap(liquid and meant for the sink not for the dishwasher–sorry Garrett!)
- Dish gloves
- Hot water for rinsing the dishes after washing
- Clean dish towel
1. Always wash glasses/stemware/barware/mugs/teacups first. There is nothing worse than having to drink wine, milk or coffee in a glass that tastes and smells like yesterdays eggs. Disgusting! This is my biggest pet peave–stemware or glassware that smells of other food. Think about it. If you wash your glasses/stemware in the dish water AFTER you have washed off your dinner ware(plates and bowls) your glasses will end up having some funky dinner odours on them. No thank you. PLEASE NOTE: That while dishwashers do provide you with an exceptionally simple way of doing your dishes they do not always leave them smelling truly clean. You may consider doing your glasses/mugs/tea cups/crystal by hand.
2. Next you wash the flatware(forks and spoons first, then knives). You may notice a pattern here. Anything that goes directly into your mouth should be washed first. Unless of course you eat right off of your dinnerware and in that case I don’t think any etiquette coaching will help you.
3. Then you would wash your dinnerware. Please scrape off the dinnerware and put it into the compost bin. If you have healthy left overs such as simple grains, steamed veggies and cooked meats/fish you may also consider sharing this with your feline and canine friends(no sauces please).
4. If you have properly scraped off your dinnerware before washing then your water should be clean enough to do the service wear(containers that you used to “serve” your guest with such as platters, salad bowls, tourines, etc.) and preparation tools(such as knives, graters, wooden spoons, etc). Please make sure that you scrape off any gooey cheese or sauces so that you do not dirty your water any more than you need to.
5. Now depending on the cleanliness of the water you can either do your pots, pans and other cooking items(trays, stones, etc.) or empty the water, wipe down the sink and then fill it up and start washing the pots. If your water is too murky to see through to the bottom and or it smells I would suggest changing the water. Normally, you can finish cleaning the dishes without having to change the water. Also consider that you will not be “eating” off of these items and they will be heated thoroughly before adding food.
6. Once finished all of the above you would then wash any preparation materials that may be contaminated with bacteria. I use the same cloth as I used throughout the first five steps but I use dish gloves and really, really hot water. You need to ensure that you removed any excess meat/fish from the cutting boards and then give them a great soak then rinsing with exceptionally hot water.
7. I then rinse the cloth throroughly and then put it into a wash load with my linens(napkins, placemats, table cloths from supper).
8. Give the sink a cleaning with baking soda to get out the grime and then rinse with water and vinegar. Remember that mixing the vinegar and baking soda together will give you the start to a great grade six volcano project.
9. After washing each item please be sure to rinse it thoroughly with warm to hot water. The hotter the water the less spots on the dishes. You can put them into a draining rack or lay them onto a clean dish towel to start drying.
10. Dry the dishes carefully. If you have found that you missed a spot–stop and wash it again, then rinse it out.
11. Put away your clean and sparkling dishes.
12. Give yourself a pat on the back for a job well done.
Remember, the day will come when you want to wash your Le Creuset http://www.lecreuset.com/en-ca/pot or you Riedel stemware http://www.riedel.com/ and you will need to wash them by hand. You now have the knowledge to wash your dishes with confidence. Now go forth and prosper. Then use that hard-earned money to buy some quality items so that you too can spend Sunday evenings washing dishes and chatting with loved ones while you wash, dry and put the dishes away together after a long, leisurely meal.
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